What will expect from others when we are in trouble? It’s very simple answer, if we are in financial crisis we need financial help. If its other problems, our family or friends may have to give sufficient support to solve this issue. Sometimes what we need is a person just to hear our problems without judging us and giving mental support. We will be peaceful after sharing it.
To me, life was normal and happy until my mother was diagnosed with a chronic disease in 2014. It almost broke my family. The treatment has gone for three years and she didn’t survived this and expelled in 2017. During this time and after her death, lot of people came forward to help us. What I have realized during this time was don’t judge anyone negatively or positively. Because when we are in trouble the people we judged negatively may come to help you. The people we judged postively may not come to help. So it’s better to not judge anyone. And expect anything from anyone.
Don’t believe that you will get the support from the people we have helped earlier. Sometimes it may from them we are going to face more painfull experience.